Posted by fallsfall on September 15, 2003, at 8:42:46
In reply to 2:45 am, wanting to call him., posted by kara lynne on September 15, 2003, at 4:49:49
Kara,
I hope the sleeping pill worked. You can take sleeping pills at midnight, too. Or even 11PM...
(((((Kara)))))
You are lovable. But just because a person is lovable doesn't mean that *everybody* in the world is going to love that person. You don't love everyone. You love some people. You are closer to some people than you are to others. If you aren't close to someone, that doesn't make them unlovable. Haven't you noticed occasionally a very strange couple? What comes to mind (and understand that I am a nerd) is a really nerdy couple, and you say to yourself "Who would want him? Who would want her?", and then you realize that you might not want him, but she does. They are good for each other - they might not be good for anyone else, but they are good for each other.
So, if he doesn't love you that doesn't say anything about you. It says something about the fit between the two of you. You are still lovable, you just need to find the right person to love you.
Speaking of that... He made you miserable. He was not good for you. You deserve better.
Do not call him. Do not drive past his place. Do not email him. Do not stop by his work.
There are other people in the world. There are lots of people who will love you. Just not him (but since he makes you miserable, I think that is it OK that he doesn't love you).
There is nothing wrong with you.
If I knew we were on at the same time (at the top of this thread) I would have stayed up to talk to you.
Get some good ice cream.
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