Posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 17:35:11
In reply to Re: Don't call him, posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 0:12:01
My counselor just said I had to pick one. Either get a therapist and have a few reminder sessions or let go. Write the email, but more importantly--cut the connection. Finally. Completely.
She said this is killing me, or will kill me. This is my most difficult issue in life; getting away from people that are bad for me. My worth has to be more important than the situation I'm leaving, ultimately. It has to get to that point.
Even when I indicated that I was softening on this--my ex asked if I wanted to talk and I emailed 'I think so'---I haven't heard back from him. She said it's just one more agonizing illustration of the Way Things Are and Will Be Forever with him.
So...I have to make a decision and act on it. I have to find a counselor, or make the break. Once and for all.
poster:kara lynne
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