Posted by annierose on January 10, 2007, at 6:46:37
In reply to Being Angry, posted by Daisym on January 9, 2007, at 22:49:08
i'll write more thoughts later - just dashing around this morning -
but it strikes me as true. do you remember what i wrote a few weeks back - around new years? sometimes we set up for ourselves exactly what we fear? if i push you away first, our brains tell us, then you can't hurt me. of course, it's not true.
i don't think there is any comfort in knowing these feelings that are popping up are a memory. your t is a rock. he is who your more trusting side knows to be true. he is not going to leave you. but those memories cloud your judgment and your little daisy is scared and pushes him away. he won't. you keep reacting to your t as if he is someone else - someone from your past that hurt you.
of course, i could be totally off base here.
but i'm sorry it's so darn hard. it is.
(((((((daisy)))))))))
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