Posted by Dinah on May 23, 2005, at 14:26:56
In reply to A blind guess » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 13:45:19
I tried it at some point. It's such a cliche, you know? So I tried to fantasize about him. Just didn't go anywhere for me.
Little girls have physiological reactions, just like little boys do. Any mom of very little children can tell you that. You don't have to have a grown up body to be aroused. I have very clear memories of physiological responses that at the time I didn't understand more than to know they felt good.
What you say may be true of some people. But what's true of some people isn't true of all people. It's not true of me.
I'm perfectly capable of obsessing about any number of things. :) I stay up late and watch Dr. Bob administrate. But I'm not attracted to Dr. Bob either. (Sorry Dr. Bob) And.. Well, I'd better not go there.
Sometimes a banana is just a banana.
Although I do think my therapist was wrong (and right). My extra sensitivity to sensation follows through to this area as well, and my experiences are probably not typical. But I'm not upping the mood stabilizer even more, and making myself even groggier, just for this.
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