Posted by JenStar on May 22, 2005, at 20:26:14
In reply to One reason I wanted to post this, posted by Dinah on May 22, 2005, at 19:06:49
I think you're very brave to post about this!
And I think the "normal" aspect of arousal, no matter how many times you do/don't get aronsed, is what you do with those feelings. It's normal to explore, analyze and then accept them in your situation. That is seemly. It would NOT be "seemly" if you jumped onto his lap every time and demanded a big wet kiss! (I'm guessing this has never happened.)
I think there are normal ways of handling arousal in our society, and that is more important than how many times you become aroused. And being on the high end of normal is pretty cool. It's a nice feeling, being aroused, right? Much better than being on the high end of migraine headaches, or leg cramps, or acne, or something. :)
Again, thanks for being brave enough to share this with us.
It's interesting to me that you feel aroused often, but are not all that interested in sex itself. Is that something you've discussed with the T? (sorry if this is too personal to ask.) It seems that there might be interesting analysis work there.
JenStar
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