Posted by Dinah on May 22, 2005, at 19:59:57
In reply to Re: One reason I wanted to post this, posted by daisym on May 22, 2005, at 19:38:04
I'm sorry, Daisy. :(
I don't mean to minimize it.
If something happens, I give myself permission for it to happen. That way I retain the illusion of control.
I tend to be too pragmatic at times, and I hope it doesn't hurt others. I'd never want it to hurt you.
Maybe understanding the link between specific triggers and the results is the key? I'm very aware of the link between anxiety and arousal. Contrary to what my therapist says, I never remember feeling it when I'm feeling intimacy.
poster:Dinah
thread:501142
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050521/msgs/501375.html