Posted by daisym on May 22, 2005, at 22:37:08
In reply to Re: One reason I wanted to post this » daisym, posted by Dinah on May 22, 2005, at 22:22:39
Exactly. I think there is huge potential for pain if this is explored. On the surface he says that I've learned to connect being close to having sex. And I've let him be close to me. So he said it is perfectly understandable that I would begin to get these sensations (not conscious feelings) when I'm close to him.
I have to figure this out before it wrecks my therapy. I've stewed about it all weekend. I'm back and forth between "no big deal" -- like you said, it happens a lot -- to "oh my God, how could I, of all people, feel like this?!"
I wish I was aroused more often and more easily. It wouldn't freak me out now as much, if this was typical for me. It just isn't.
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