Posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 13:45:19
In reply to Re: One reason I wanted to post this » Dinah, posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 13:08:52
Hi Dinah,
After rethinking, I think you are attracted to your therapist - at some level. Even though you are not aware of it, and might cringe at the mention of it.I think otherwise, it is not possible for someone to talk about other person endlessly. Like you have been doing here for atleast as far as I know (3 years??)
You might think you are not a woman, and he is not your type, and you might think that you are thinking of him as a big mommy figure etc, but I think basically you are pretty attracted to him.
It seems impossible to me, that I would want to talk about anyone for any lengths of time if I am not attracted to that person in some way. For instance, I have a new therapist now, who is a she, and I don't talk about her at all here, even though I basically like her.
Just the fact that you have been spending all your time in the past few years constantly thinking about your T and writing about him and analyzing his every gestures and reprocessing everything that happened with him - indicates to me that probably you are quite attracted to him deeply. Even though you yourself may not be aware of it. It is nothing bad, but just something to think about.
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