Posted by antigua on September 15, 2004, at 4:53:28
In reply to Achingly, painful hurt (this is VERY long), posted by saw on September 15, 2004, at 3:12:45
You're more than right, your husband doesn't understand. I don't think anyone can really truly understand the devestation of depression unless they have experienced it. My husband doesn't understand it either. When he gets too difficult to deal with, I drag him to my T and she makes him understand. He tends to always think the glass is almost completely empty when it comes to me, but lately I see it as filling up. My T tells me that my husband uses my "problems" to shield himself from having to deal with his own issues. She is right.
Can you get some counseling together? It's better if it's not just you against him, IMO.
best,
antigua
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