Posted by Ç®ëëþý Tabitha on October 31, 2002, at 23:27:31
In reply to Re: P.S.... » Ç®ëëþý Tabitha, posted by Eddie Sylvano on October 31, 2002, at 9:42:36
Except for me, my partner is disappointed in my lower libido, and I take it as proof I'm sexually inadequate, and in order to hide this unaccaptable conclusion, I start trying to pass as normal by tolerating more sex than I want. Then as my resentment grows, whatever actual desire I felt for sex and enthusiasm for the relationship I started out with dies completely.
Eventually I end up single again, and gradually forget the misery of being in a sexual relationship (is it like forgetting the pain of childbirth?), and the misery of being alone seems worse, so I hook up with Mr. New and the cycle repeats.
Wow, I've never heard myself spell it out in such depressing detail. No wonder I'm eager to turn being partner-free into a legitimate identity.
poster:Ç®ëëþý Tabitha
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