Posted by Eddie Sylvano on October 30, 2002, at 18:26:21
In reply to Sex Partners: Who Needs Them?, posted by Tabßitha on October 30, 2002, at 2:50:28
> Am I a freak? I don't care! If there aren't more like me, there should be. I'm proud to be... Partner-Free!
--------------------------Maybe you just need to find the right partner? I'm fairly atypical when it comes to sex as well. Most women don't interest me. I need intelligence, and it's hard to find. I'm also not the most passionate person, physically. Kind of reserved; but I do enjoy sex with the right person. I can understand if you feel too pressured or anxious (or just disinterested) around the men you meet. Our society places a huge emphasis on sex, which takes away from the simpler aspects of touch, such as hugging, cuddling, kisses on the jaw, etc. If I had to choose between pure sex or clothed intimacy for the rest of my life, I'd go with the latter. As far as actual orgasmic sex goes, sure, it's easier to reach climax by yourself, but a lot of the enjoyment is being there to watch the *other* person enjoying themselves. You don't have to have sex, either. There's a huge gray area of activities that you can do that might be more approachable and relaxing for you. Anyway. Idk. If you can't get excited about sex in some fashion, what's left? Food? Drugs?
poster:Eddie Sylvano
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