Posted by paxvox on November 26, 2001, at 12:27:19
In reply to your first love, posted by sar on November 25, 2001, at 0:46:14
Sar, how sad.
However, if you were *really* in love with the fellow, his looks would have become LESS important to you than more important. Maybe it was more an infatuation, or maybe he satisfied some other needs that you had (but obviously not ALL of them). You could, on the other hand, be in love with "being in love", in that you enjoy that "buzz" that one gets. I call it the butterfly effect. Yes, I know what that is like.
I will reserve other comments largely because I do not know you personally, and can not be as subjective as you might actually need someone to be to you. Have you any close female friends that you can share these feelings with? If you want me to say more from the male perspective, I will be happy to provide you with objective as well as my personal feelings.PAX
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