Posted by fleeting flutterby on February 16, 2009, at 17:57:33
In reply to Re: What if.......... » fleeting flutterby, posted by seldomseen on February 13, 2009, at 8:20:18
> Honestly, at first I would be devastated. Then I would get angry. Then, to be honest, I probably would put his statement right back on him and want to know what he meant by that.
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> He definately would have to convince me to stay in therapy with him after a comment like that, but, after 3 years, I would at least give him a chance.
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> Seldom.
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--------- You can put yourself in a place that I've been unable to do(my whole life)-- Getting angry and then confronting someone.(I so do wish for that)I do believe that having attachment problems and triggers from complex- PTSD(childhood traumas)-- I find that voice that is so so loud telling me that I have NO RIGHT TO GET ANGRY and I have NO RIGHT TO CONFRONT anyone as I am wrong, wrong, wrong..... that voice, I'm finding, is very difficult to side-step around. *sigh*......
just after reading your response and thinking of doing such a thing, has my stomach all in knots and feeling nauseous(sp?)...... ugh......somehow I've got it embedded in my head, how I have no right to do such things.....
oh the anxiety now.........
thank you for replying though, -- I do need to see the "healthy" way to deal with this...... no matter how much anxiety it stirs up in me.....
flutterby-mandy
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