Posted by muffled on August 4, 2006, at 13:11:03
In reply to Re: Been away sick....need some advice » Racer, posted by fairywings on August 4, 2006, at 12:47:44
FW,
Maybe you could take these posts in. It sounds like it would make for a good session. I think its super important (yet hard to do) to get these things clear and out in the open. Cuz the T relationship I think IS so different.
My T sucks at phoning back. Sometimes she does, sometimes she doesn't. She is also COMPLETELY unavailable over the weekend, and in the night. She has made that VERY clear. And thats ok, so long as I know.
I think if you discuss all that you have posted in this thread with your T, it will become very clear whether or not he is the T for you. He may or may not be.
My T's phone message says to phone crisis line or got to emerg. if there's a problem. So she is not always avail.
The caring thing is HUGE. Its also a minefield of danger.
My T has been very unconditionally accepting of me (its her job after all) and thats been very good for me.
She has said she cares about me.
So I dunno, maybe this isn't very clear or helpful.
But I am not very clear right now.
My T is away, but is back on Tues.
Sigh.......
I dunno.
Take care FW.
Hope you can work it out.
I've found alot get learned with anger. I told my T to f*ck off more than once and its been useful!!!!
Ha.
See ya,
Muffly
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