Posted by muffled on August 7, 2006, at 15:34:00
In reply to Re: Been away sick....need some advice » Jost, posted by fairywings on August 7, 2006, at 14:41:06
Well FW sorry your hurting.
I hope your able to present this all to him clearly(or bring in these posts).
To be fair, he MAY care, I dunno.
But what I'm comming to figger is that T's are T's and thats it. The reason that we CAN tell them our weird sh*t is cuz they are neutral observers. They can't hold our hands all the time no matter how much we wish they would. They can't fill the unmet needs that never got filled when we were kids. They guide us and help us see more clearly, but I think thats about it.
That being said, I think he did breach the confidentiality thing, and it sounds like your gonna let him know that, so thats good. Maybe you'll save someone else the heartache you are going thru.
I think T's need to make things MUCH clearer right from the start, and keep reminding us of theses things.
Its hard and confusing.
Ilike you FW, please take care,
Muffled
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