Posted by crushedout on July 22, 2006, at 17:35:06
In reply to Re: as above, breaking my heart, posted by raisinb on July 22, 2006, at 17:13:14
> Thanks for the encouragement people...I'm a long way from actually saying something, and my therapist wouldn't pick up on it either. I'm pretty sure she's clueless, but who knows. Do they ever bring it up if they see the signs?
I think sometimes they do. But they're probably worried about freaking you out (the same way you're worried about freaking her out). Also, they don't want to push you before you're ready.My last T (who wasn't exactly perfect but did some things right) kind of brought it up, or gave me an opening rather, by asking me to describe my feelings about her.
I think you should take as much time as you need. If you think she can't handle it, though, you may want to consider getting another T, as hard as that sounds. But I would give her a chance to prove you wrong first.
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