Posted by pinkeye on May 5, 2005, at 13:51:33
In reply to Re: Ah hah., posted by Susan47 on May 5, 2005, at 10:00:03
You know what I think? I think you need some form of real spirituality. In some way or the other. It will help you immensely.
More than even concentrating on the romance right now, and figuring out all this transference, if I were you, I would start attending church regularly. Or any other religious group nearby if you have one in the same place where you live.
That will really help you Susan. It is incredibly hard to come out of all this by yourself. I know your kids are separated from you, and you live all by yourself. IT is really incredibly hard for ANYONE to come out of such problems without an external support. Even if you had the perfect therapist in the whole world, to give YOU that need to heal and be well, you need some form of spirituality. You know, I never ask people to trust my words.. I always think that people need to understand anything before doing it. But for this once, trust my words. Start participating in some group activity which involves some form of higher goal in life - either church, or temples, or even a good social organization would do.
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