Posted by Poet on October 11, 2004, at 12:23:55
In reply to Re: Emotional confetti » Poet, posted by fallsfall on October 9, 2004, at 16:41:49
I would never pat you on the head(s) and tell you to go away. I wasn't ignoring your post.
I will try the library for the Skill Training manual. The public libraries are all linked together, so I would think that one of them might have it. A university library is a possibility, too.
I think that shame can be felt and dealt. For me, the shame about quitting therapy and then going back is of my own creation. My therapist didn't shame me, I shamed me.
I am projecting onto her my feeling that it's a bad thing. We interpret the same act differently. She would probably by trying hard to convince me that I didn't do a bad thing as hard as I would be trying to convince her that I did.
Is something good or bad is up to the individual. It's okay to disagree, but I can see your point about that those who disagree are uninformed. The only way I'll get more informed or she will is if I call her and I still can't get myself to do it.
Poet
I hope this made sense.
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