Posted by Karen_kay on January 15, 2004, at 12:17:09
In reply to Re: Ok Ladies, Listen UP!!!! » Karen_kay, posted by Pfinstegg on January 15, 2004, at 12:04:07
To give an example from my own therapy, my analyst said to me once, "you're sexy as hell". Now, that sounds just awful when I write it, but in context, I felt completely safe and validated- and it was part of some very positive changes which were occurring in me. So, who's to judge, or say, other than the persons involved?
*Right on! I'm just shaking my head... I...uh...um.... it uh, doesn't sound so good but I completely understand what you are saying. He's not fullfilling any type of fantasy I have about him at all. I actually don't have any type of fantasy about him anymore. I honestly wish you (as in EVERYONE!! They are quite interesting!)could be in the room with me and hear what he says and what I say, to get the actual conversation. It's hard to translate. But, I assure you I didn't percieve it to be a boundary crossing of any sort. Unless it's just that I'm naive? But, I guess the ultimate decision is up to me anyway. And unless a serious infraction were to occur I wouldn't stop seeing him. He's helped me too much.
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