Posted by alexandra_k on October 19, 2013, at 16:47:47
In reply to Re: BTW, I am in crisis » alexandra_k, posted by Partlycloudy on October 19, 2013, at 4:42:09
maybe he was really affected by his therapists getting sick. i mean i don't know... but some people might have felt pretty abandoned at that point... then embarrassed about that... so all defensive 'didn't really need that / wasn't helping anyway'. i don't know.
did you tell him that you felt that your marriage was going better for the counseling?
i don't know... but it sounds like you do want your marriage to go better. what is his take on it? is he happy with it, with the way things are, or does he feel like things could be better between you both?
i don't know what your relationship is like... whether you tend to fight... whether you feel like he stonewalls you... i don't know...
but things were pretty bad before where you were starting to wonder whether you might in fact be better off without him. but then on your trip... you thought your trip would have been better with him there by your side. so... sounds like you DO want to work things out.
i can't imagine that he is feeling any happier about your relationship than you are... i wonder what he thinks might help?
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