Posted by Dinah on August 22, 2013, at 2:26:02
In reply to Re: Letting go, posted by alexandra_k on August 22, 2013, at 0:49:03
It's more a shift of attitude than of practical involvement. She's rejected any practical involvement. I was just banging my head against the wall trying to force her to take care of herself because I couldn't let go of my feeling that it was my responsibility to make sure she's ok. It can't be done. Not by me anyway. In fact, she might listen to others better if I'm not involved.
poster:Dinah
thread:1049420
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20130811/msgs/1049476.html