Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 20:35:47
In reply to When life gets hard, I just feel like giving up, posted by Deneb on October 17, 2009, at 19:05:12
Advice: what routines that are successful in? just try to think what your good in, that anything that requires mental effort, that is success. Idleness with enjoyment of life is a feeling of "what have i done with my life?". Work up to a Goal.
I do know when mindstates are at their lowest because personally me i feel ashamed to show myself to people, and one thing my family doesnt approve of me, and that's fine you accept it. Find some friends that know the pain, yet sometimes I myself can't make conncetion's because it becomes unstable, or rejection will come time. Sometimes you rerember the past thing's I did, and they bring memory of success, so just 'keep' that memory, and work to a Goal, I wanted to be an actor, went to Acting school, well it was a studio more that teaches you the basic's. Things kinda fell into a state of idleness because of unstableness. Yet, i'm glad sometimes I critize myself before someone else does..that way, i'm perfect.
These are thoughts of shame, discouragement, yet this place may be a good place for support [dr-bob], if you feel uncoformable with other people. You can talk it out here, and other's will see.
improving life....looking to things maybe that are better than they are now. Faith that things will be better is the best, accept the present and know why you are 'critizing' yourself, maybe some of that critism is from the feelings of other's and [well at least I do] critize myself so I'm fine, I improve, yet I feel shame still.
I think when people cry out for help, they want someone there to be with them and feel the pain, kinda like when a mom takes care of baby, trust that someone is there, when there no one there it's abandonment.
One aspect about you is your nice, and you have good intelligence in plants. And also you want to improve, that's something good.
All I can do really, maybe there is group support on babble that can improve, yet the one thing is the motivation to get to another Goal. Some people just need people there, it think. Best to you.
rj
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