Posted by Kath on February 12, 2009, at 19:56:24
In reply to Re: Miserable, posted by yellowbird01 on February 11, 2009, at 17:01:51
> every part of my body, especially in my heart. Every breath hurts.
~ ~ I can remember waking up in the night, sitting bolt upright & my heart hurting like heck.
> I went back to work today and it was so hard. Coworkers all know, but they were talking about husbands/VDay/etc right there, and I had to leave the room.
~ ~ That must have been horrible. People can be very insensitive, I find.
I would think that working in that line, having good solid support would be really a god-send.I can understand why the VS slip thing would be really painful. I'd have to hide it so I wouldn't see it!
> We're still in touch. I dont know if that's good or bad. I feel better when we talk. I really think I'd feel worse all around if we werent talking at all. But who knows.
~ ~ Maybe right now you still need that amount of contact.
~ ~ I think it's wonderful that your T called back & that you have that support.
> How do I do it?
~ ~ I don't mean to be insensitive. I didn't really feel any better until I started to fill the gaps that my ex's leaving caused. Is there anything that you like to do? I'm wondering if you can redirect yourself even in a small area of your life. When ex left me there was so much emptiness in my life. It felt awful. I joined a single parents' group & that felt even worse, because they all knew each other & I felt lonely in a group which is an awful feeling. But I think if I'd been in a group that shared a common interest it might have been different.
Hugs, Kath
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