Posted by TexasChic on July 7, 2008, at 22:12:53
In reply to Bullies » Angela2, posted by TexasChic on July 7, 2008, at 21:34:54
I can see how all these qualities relate to me:
* Popularity - This brings out the jealousy side of the bully.
I'm not really popular, but I tend to be well liked over all, and I seem to befriend the people most find hard to open up.* Intelligence - This only enhances the bully's inadequacies.
I think I tend to appear rather dingy, then surprise people by showing my intelligence.
* You always give 100% and will do anything to help others - This brings out jealousy In bullies.Yep that's me!
* You are imaginative and creative - Again shows the bullies incompetence.I'd like to think that describes me.
* You have a strong sense of right and wrong - The bully will never admit to being wrong.I think that describes me too.
* You prefer to talk rather than fight - The bully sees this as a sign of weakness.Definitely
* High level of tolerance - The bully will try and break you down through bullying to prove he is stronger than you.Yeah, I'm pretty stubborn & try to tough things out.
They also say the victims tend to be independent, which I think is something I've always shown by not wanting to get involved in petty gossip, and not being a kiss up (I have a low tolerance for fake people & gossips).
These are the types of things they always list about the victims of bullies. So I think there's something to it. I think its a certain combination of qualities.
-T
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