Posted by Racer on March 9, 2008, at 21:23:55
In reply to Re: Maybe it's a question of perspective? » Racer, posted by Kath on March 6, 2008, at 20:43:32
> it really points out very clearly what my Mom used to say years ago, "sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind".
I have heard that expression before, but it has always kinda bothered me. I hate the idea of "being" cruel, you know? How about we make a little change, and see if it's better:
"Sometimes, you have to *seem* cruel in order to *be* kind."
I like that better, don't you? ;-)
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> Thanks, KathYou're welcome. Always.
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