Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 20, 2007, at 23:29:54
In reply to Re: calling for help, posted by Dr. Bob on January 20, 2007, at 10:48:26
Dr Bob can you *give us some examples* of how we may help? I think I saw once on this site a notice "if you are suicidal call...etc"......Would not helping Deneb by NOT suggesting she call for professional help
lead others to NOT post or want to talk to her and or to feel accused and put down by you because they offered the SAME advice and help most professionals have on their recorded messages and websites ? Could this lead Deneb to be shunned ? I would not want to see that. I am not being smart mouthed or snide when I ask you these questions.
> > It has been pointed out, it is your call as when to call for help.
> >
> > Glydin
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> > I think a lot of folks assume this mythical "help" is out there, and refuse to believe that it doesn't always exist.
> >
> > I've had people angry with me for not partaking of it, when it couldn't be found, and it was agonizing, I felt let down by everyone.
> >
> > gabbi-2
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> I understand people want to help, and it's hard to know what's best sometimes, but pressure can go both ways, and it might not help Deneb to feel pressured, or that others are angry with her.
>
> Bob
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