Posted by Joan797 on July 10, 2006, at 23:37:19
In reply to Re: *Suicide trigger*, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 22:45:29
Deneb
Please consider my words carefully and I hope you will understand that I mean no disrespect, nor do I mean to be uncivil.
But, here goes.........
Are you thinking of suicide because you really hate life itself or do you just want to hurt the ones around you and "make them sorry"?
You cannot control other's feelings. No matter how hard you try. Trust me, I've been there. I know that it won't help telling you that it would be a huge loss for your friends and family if you carried out your plans, but it would.
You're mother's tough love approach isn't working on you but she doesn't know that...or she doesn't care. I don't know. Words can be very cruel sometimes. Words often hurt worse than actual slaps, I know.
I don't know what I'm trying to say.
I guess I just want you to know that taking your own life, affects more than you know. Sometimes casual aquaintances care often as much if not more than your family, and saying things like what you have said are painful for me to read.
For god's sake, what if you are the one to cure cancer.............what if you find a cure for aids...........what if you could win the nobel peace prize...........there is a reason you are here on this earth. Just because you haven't found it yet, doesn't mean that reason doesn't exist.
Please don't.
Joan
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