Posted by Donna Louise on June 8, 2006, at 20:48:48
In reply to Re: Can I ask some questions about sex here? » B2chica, posted by curtm on June 8, 2006, at 16:46:31
Thanks so much for responding! I feel better already. I have no back injury, the lack of libido started with the paxil way back in '93 and everything I have taken since then has had the same effect. Either that or I never recovered from the loss on the paxil. I was so hoping that on the patch it wouldn't be an issue and it is a tad better but not much. I still don't care if I ever have it again or not. And to Bchica, yes, the surgery is to get me out of pain. Apparantly, menapause has been awful to my vaginal lining and opening and it has to be surgically enlarged. I have started estrogen creams to help with the restoration of the lining but apparantly I need to be surgically widened. ugh. how awful. I have heard of some women after having alot kids or something that could use some shrinking..but I have never heard of this. And I would think that after the surgery I wouldn't be afraid of pain anymore but the whole idea of having sex has gotten screwed up in my brain with all the anxiety problems I have. Too bad I couldn't have a little champagne and joint. I used to be something of a maniac in my younger years..maybe I am just getting old.
And I am on hormone replacement btw.
The floodgates have opened, oh boy, now that I have permission. I don't talk about it with much of anyone.Donna
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