Posted by Donna Louise on June 8, 2006, at 15:19:42
I know it isn't all girls or I wouldn't worry about it. But this isn't a 'sexy' thing I need to ask about. I am all freaked out about having some surgery..it is to restore lost physical sexual ability to have sex without pain. (It would mean 6 weeks I couldn't ride my horses, my lifesaver..) and cost alot of money..but that aside...the question has to do with desire. I thought with the patch I would get that back but I haven't really. So I am having high anxiety about getting this surgery just to still not want to use the equipment. Besides not having the desire, I am now practically phobic about it. I have a husband, for almost 30 years, same good guy and he has been great but I feel bad for him. Anyway, question is. Can I ask?..is there some kind of horney drug that makes the desire come and the fear go? I would not hesitate to have the surgery if I could back it up knowing I would want to make use of the ahem, equipment. I can't drink or smoke pot so those options are out.
Well, there, I talked about it and asked the question without waiting to find out if it is ok. Please someone write me back so I don't go into total meltdown for fear of being a fool.
Thankyouverymuch,donna
poster:Donna Louise
thread:654558
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