Posted by sunny10 on March 10, 2005, at 15:08:47
In reply to just existing... » sunny10, posted by Toph on March 10, 2005, at 12:28:21
I'll respond real quick before I read Mel's self-admittedly long entry (mainly 'cause I want to be able to pay attention- she's got a wealth of experiences for me to draw on!!)
He wants to quit the drugs. He knows that he doesn't want to blow our "savings" on drugs. He knows he doesn't want to lie or deceive me.
Yes, he has admitted to "self-medicating" and trying to fill a void. Mainly he is bored. Winters in PA are much more boring than winters in CO, as you just found out for yourself...(in CO, by the way, read it and am SO PROUD of the way you handled yourself and your intention to improve your relationship with your son!!!)
I am not interested in controlling him- I am interested in building a future....
Okay, now that you have your answers, any more thoughts??
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