Posted by Dinah on June 22, 2004, at 7:57:36
In reply to Re: Love or in love?, posted by tampagirl70 on June 22, 2004, at 7:49:07
If after eleven years, you sometimes still feel like you love him, and that you can't imagine what it would be like without him, and you would be very sad if he weren't around, then my guess would be that you love him. Maybe you're not in love with him, I have no way of knowing that. But "in love" wears off a lot for most people. Maybe not the happy few, but the majority.
If you've been with someone eleven years and you didn't love them, you'd most likely be yearning to get away from them and despising them with every inch of your being.
Living eleven years with someone you don't love is enough to engender a lot of dislike.
poster:Dinah
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