Posted by Dinah on December 14, 2003, at 14:41:57
In reply to Re: Ambien not working./ dee, posted by kara lynne on December 14, 2003, at 12:29:12
And the good lord knows that I have absolutely no relationship knowledge at all. But it seems to me that you still have significant unresolved issues with your ex. If he's still willing to spring for a counselor, mightn't it be a good idea to meet him there, and only there, to try to emotionally break up as well as physically break up? (And I suppose, conceivably, if he's now as wonderful as he thinks he is, you could try to work on rebuilding a relationship.) If he's not still willing, are you able to afford a therapist at this point? One with special experience with relationships?
Again, I'm no expert. But I remember how miserable I was when I was still emotionally entangled with my mother, and how wonderful it felt to one day look at her and have her be little short of a stranger to me. Emotional divorce puts all those demons to rest.
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