Posted by deirdrehbrt on December 13, 2003, at 21:06:12
In reply to Re: Feel like I'm cracking up. - Kara Lynne, posted by Dinah on December 13, 2003, at 20:20:58
Kara,
I don't know how long ago the split occurred between you and your ex. I might have read it, but so much of what I read just goes right through my brain and evaporates in the ether.
I can tell you this. My ex and I divorced about two years ago. We went through a mediator, and I was exceptionally generous, mostly for the children, and partly because I felt responsible.
Still, there were issues. My ex was the one that wanted the divorce; mostly because of my mental illness.
We have striven to be civil for our daughters, and now, two years later, we are learning how to be somewhat better friends. I know that the gap is far too wide to ever cross, and be a couple again, but I would much rather have a friend than an enemy.
I'm thinking of you Kara, and know how much it can hurt. I pray for you and your ex. With a med change in the middle, you deserve extra prayers.
Take care,
Dee.
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