Posted by JadeT on December 9, 2003, at 14:55:04
In reply to gosh, I'm really sorry., posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 9:10:22
> > Lar has already spelt out to you that he has a sweetheart. Then he asked you to respect that realm of his life...
>
> I thought I had been clear and I thought I had communicated my clairty to him through a post...I am not interested in any way other than friendship....
> > So WHY don't you just leave him alone on that point instead of keepin on and on...
> >
> I am so sorry this has upset you...if I could take back my silly comment I would...but truely I am being silly...
> No harm intended...please forgive me, I am still new at all of this and obviously can make mistakes...
> peace?
> Jai Narayan
>
>Sure, peace.
I'm sorry it came over so harsh. I should have phrased it better.I just could not work out why anyone would think of starting to call anyone "honey" if it is not something you are used to doing, not something you are comfortable with as in it doesn't come naturally, and they haven't encouraged you? Like why "honey" all of a sudden then?
Perhaps I missed something?So that line , to me, came over all wrong..like it was some game, which you didn't want to stop.
I've been reading on this forum for a couple of months and I've felt uncomfortable...as I think perhaps others may too..but perhaps it is all just me.
I'm sorry if I got it all wrong. Did I miss something?
Please accept my apologies if I've misinterpreted anything,
Jade
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