Posted by HannahW on September 26, 2003, at 13:18:43
I've never really had anyone to talk to about this, but reading some of these other posts has encouraged me that maybe I'm not alone.
I'm pretty introverted, but also enjoy a good party. (Actually, I only enjoy a party if there's a sufficient quantity of alcohol. Somehow, I only feel like "the real me" at a party when I'm relaxed and have a slight buzz. Without the alcohol, I can never think of a thing to say to people, and feel really uncomfortable. But that's not the reason for this post.)
I've always only had a couple of very close friends at a time. I haven't had any close friends for about 3 years now, and I'm beginning to feel intensely lonely. I've made some efforts to deepen relationships with some of my casual friends, but so far haven't had much luck in making any real connections.
I don't work with anyone within 15 years of my age, and I haven't been active in church in years. Other than those two places, where do people make friends? And how do I know if I'm doing it right?
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