Posted by octopusprime on September 20, 2003, at 23:06:24
In reply to octoprime, posted by kara lynne on September 20, 2003, at 16:27:36
kara lynne,
please try to get some sleep. when a person hasn't slept, all judgement on life issues goes out the window. don't decide what to do about your ex until you are rested and have taken good care of yourself.
i'm glad you're going out with friends, meditating, etc. although they are poor replacements for what we have lost, they are indeed the nourishment for our souls as we travel through these difficult times.
i know how hard it is to let go. i understand why you are having trouble even though you call your relationship "a dead end". kara lynne, you have to live your own life as you see fit.
i'm going to keep asking you tough questions though, as you make decisions moving forward. kara lynne, you are tired and hurting. please give yourself a rest. i'm sure you have an idea of just how wrenching it will be (or how wrenching it is) to talk to your ex, with or without a third party.
please reconsider this. i think you should save your emotional and physical energy for kara lynne. you're tired and hurting. you need all the resources you can get your hands on to help get well.
poster:octopusprime
thread:260066
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