Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 1:15:03
In reply to Complaining about the ex-boyfriend, posted by Tabitha on August 11, 2003, at 22:06:07
It does sound like it might be too 'expensive' to keep him as a friend. Even though it may be hard to let him go, if he's still not over you there will always be a significant strain on the relationship. Was it worth it to get the support you were looking for in the first place--or did you even get it?
Like you say he did these kinds of things even when you were together, so it's not likely to change anytime soon. Unless of course---the medication starts working!! Then I guess you could reconsider.
In the meantime, stay away from pity sex and take the advice you gave me: Pay attention to your intuition. : )
(Although my intuition is telling me to curl up in the fetal postion and never get out of bed...)
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