Posted by ROO on July 24, 2003, at 17:05:19
In reply to Re: The hurt ... it's a cyclical thing, posted by Temmie on July 24, 2003, at 12:59:53
I thought he might be a scorpio when you said
hypnotic.I ran both your stats through an astrology program, just
for laughs. Take it with a grain of salt. I'm not sure
I believe in this stuff either, but I'm fascinated nonetheless.Anyway, here's what the program said when I did a compatibility
chart:The conjunction of composite Moon and composite
Mars indicates that you arouse very strong feelings in
each other, but by itself it does not indicate whether
they are good or bad feelings.In a love relationship, for example, this aspect
indicates that you will have a very strong emotional
involvement. The relationship will probably stir up both
positive and negative emotions in both of you.If your relationship is basically good, you will simply
experience a heightened emotional involvement,
although with a greater tendency to quarrel. But if your
relationship is not otherwise very sound, it will be
destroyed by the fighting that this aspect produces.One of the strong points of this aspect is that in a
sexual relationship it creates a good deal of sexual
energy.Mars square Neptune in the composite chart can be
quite difficult. It indicates that your intentions and the
way you interact weaken each other's effectiveness.
Usually one of you acts in such a way as to confuse or
delude the other, but also you may have a negative
reinforcing effect on each other.The only way to deal with this aspect is to stop
playing ego games, which is easier said than done,
because such games are usually played out
unconsciously. Neither parnter is aware of what is
going on.In an extreme case you may be consciously deceitful
toward each other. In a marriage, this might be done
through infidelity; in a friendship, it might be actions
that intentionally go against your friend's interests.The only defense is to be completely honest with
each other and at the same time reasonably gentle in
your honesty.
The conjunction of Sun and Venus in the composite
chart is one of the strongest indications of a love
relationship between two people, even in a
friendship. It does not primarily indicate a sexual
relationship; instead it signifies love, pure and simple.
The attraction indicated by this aspect is so powerful
that it can bring together people who are
incompatible by ordinary criteria.If the relationship is laden with conflicts, even a strong
feeling of love between you may turn to hatred. In
most cases, however, this will be a very fine personal
relationship.
he conjunction of composite Sun and Mercury
signifies that there will be a great deal of mental
activity in this relationship. This aspect is good for
verbal communication between you.You both should be wary of the tendency to
intellectualize your emotions rather than deal with
them at the gut level.You have an unusual similarity of thinking, or at least a
better than average ability to understand each other's
thinking.Mercury is a planet of travel, not always in the literal
sense of the word, but in the metaphorical sense; that
is, you like to be continually exposed to new ideas
and experiences together.One of the most positive attributes of this aspect is
the ability to be detached from what you are
discussing. Because of this detachment you may
even be able to talk about your relationship and arrive
at understandings that will help you both to get more
out of it.n a relationship with composite Sun opposition Pluto,
the most difficult problem will be power struggles.
There is a real danger that if this relationship breaks
up it will degenerate into open warfare.One or both of you must learn to curb your desire to
dominate the other. When the power of Pluto is
misused, the response tends to be violent, and no
matter what you think, with this aspect the power is
likely to be misused.There is a danger that through struggles for
domination one of you may emerge so much the loser
that you will not easily be able to recover a sense of
pride and self-confidence.The trine of composite Sun and Neptune indicates
that there is a good deal of idealism in this
relationship. You will feel that it is an extraordinary
union between two souls, perhaps even a spiritual
union. Many of the thoughts you want to communicate
to each other will not have to be spoken, for you will
know beforehand what the other person is thinking.The spiritualizing power of Neptune tends to negate
the physical realm. For this reason, a relationship with
a strong Neptune, such as this one, is likely to be
platonic rather than physical.In a friendship it is perfectly all right to commune at
such a high level, ignoring practicality. But in a love
relationship, especially marriage, practical concerns
have to be dealt with, and it may be difficult to bring
yourselves down to that level.But because Neptune rules self-sacrifice, one of the
strongest bonds between you will be your willingness
to give selflessly to each other at any time.
poster:ROO
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