Miller

Posted by white rabbit on April 14, 2003, at 8:29:51

In reply to Thanks..., posted by Miller on April 13, 2003, at 21:28:57

I'm going through the same thing as you, the only difference being that my husband has already made up his mind, sure enough. There's nothing I can do about it and for awhile, I thought the feeling of rejection was going to kill me.
Still, in the back of my mind, this tiny little voice keeps telling me that he's doing both of us a favor by demanding this separation. To be honest, he's been making me unhappy for a very long time. I gave him way too much power over me,
he could make me so happy or so miserable with just a few words, and I'm now just starting to realize that this isn't right. It's not right.
Nobody should have that kind of control over me.
It's time for me to take back control, to be responsible for my own happiness.
Once I can do that, what he says or does will no longer matter to me, and I'll be free.
-Gracie

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Lonely Miller 4/13/03
Re: Lonely » Miller leeran 4/13/03
Re: Lonely » Miller fi 4/13/03
Re: Lonely » Miller WorryGirl 4/13/03
Thanks... Miller 4/13/03
Miller white rabbit 4/14/03
no one but yourself:( justyourlaugh 4/14/03
Tears for us all Miller 4/14/03
sweet weepy miller » Miller justyourlaugh 4/14/03
My friend... Miller 4/14/03
Re: double double quotes » leeran Dr. Bob 4/14/03
Books that help me, anyway fi 4/14/03
Re: Books that help me, anyway » fi Miller 4/14/03
Re: Lonely Greg A. 4/14/03
Re: Lonely greg » Greg A. justyourlaugh 4/14/03
Re: no one but yourself:( » justyourlaugh noa 4/14/03
Re: My friend... » Miller noa 4/14/03
Re: Lonely » Miller Dinah 4/14/03
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Well said Dinah WorryGirl 4/17/03

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