Posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 10:44:48
In reply to Um. » Krissy P, posted by dogboy on March 26, 2003, at 5:35:10
LMAO-I hear you.
I figure if he was interested, he would have emailed me or called by now, he isn't shy-far from it lol
Anyway, before I went to see him, I told myself that it doesn't mean anything, if at all, we jare ust going to see each other after so long. I really think my weight has something to do with it, because the last time I saw him I was running track, thin, and active, I haven't been that way in a long time and he could probably see it physically as well as emotionally. It wasn't really a date, he just invited me down to see him, have dinner, and wanted to congratulate me on making the Dean's List, sing Karaoke, all while he was working-so I would hardly call it a date. We talked about a lot and maybe I turned him off-I don't know, but like I said, the ball's in his court, I have never been the type of woman who is desparate-I look at it as if it's meant to be then it's meant to be.
I think at this time anyhow, that I need to concentrate on school and someday, somewhere, maybe the right guy will come a long for me-and maybe not. All guys aren't dogs, lol, but maybe the answers I'm looking for from him are mildly unflattering LOL and in that case, I don't need to pursue any kind of romantic rerlationship with him.
Right???
So what do you think after all this?
thanks, Kristen
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> To be honest, although it's not an open-and-shut case, it doesn't sound promising from the romantic point of view.
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> Best case scenario: he is interested, but has had an attack of shyness, so he needs encouragement.
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> Worst case scenario: whatever he was looking for, after the date he figured he wasn't going to get it from you (that's not a euphemism! I mean it in a very general way).
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> If you really want to risk it, you could send him a casual email asking if he wants to have lunch or some such - you have a ready-made pretext that he bought you supper and you'd like to reciprocate.
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> Bottom line, in my opinion: you can't know what's happened, although the most likely explanation is one which is mildly unflattering.
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> Sorry, I know that's a less than inspiring answer! We dogs are an honest bunch of animals.
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