June 6th is father's b-day.....he's dead.

Posted by aLII on June 4, 2002, at 4:24:23

So do I go buy flowers to put at his site? Drive hour to cemetary to sit under oak and 'talk'? I feel so inadequate.
Like bad kid without respect to show my love lost. I was only eight when he died and now more than twenty some odd years later....
I'm worried I don't do it right and that the longer I go between visiting his site the worse of a person I am.
He was my dad after all but I am just lost as to how to show respect when I am disappointment to what he would have wanted me to be.
--a.

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June 6th is father's b-day.....he's dead. aLII 6/4/02
visiting the grave » aLII beardedlady 6/4/02
the truth the dead know » aLII kid_A 6/4/02
Re: visiting the grave » beardedlady aliI 6/4/02
something/anything gladly accepted.... (nm) » kid_A aliI 6/4/02
Re: June 6th is father's b-day.....he's dead. » aLII paxvox 6/5/02
Hmm.. sounds like there are some unresolved issues » paxvox alii 6/6/02

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