Posted by sar on December 6, 2001, at 9:53:48
In reply to Re: siblings » sar, posted by mair on December 5, 2001, at 15:59:47
Maybe you only feel estranged from your brother because you're looking for something from him that he can't give.
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> Just some further ramblings
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> MairMair, o Wise One, :)
i've been turning this over in my head since yesterday and i must admit that you hit the nail on the head. he gave me what he could for awhile--silent understanding, rides to the music store--but there's no way i can "fix" him, befriend him, what have you...i was pushing too hard. (can you tell iwas reading some taoist literature last night?)
i guess i was confused too as to how siblings can turn out so differently. at this point, hanging out with my bro would be like a drunken ralph nader hanging out with george washington.
:)
thanks for your insightfulness, Mair...
love,
sar
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