Posted by paxvox on September 24, 2001, at 9:21:10
In reply to what are words? do they matter?, posted by sar on September 24, 2001, at 1:32:32
Wow, that's a tough one, but I will humbly take a stab at it. First, I guess, I would have to ask how you allowed yourself to be in that situation with the bum. Not to be judgmental, but that sort of goes along with "if you don't want to get hot, stay out of the kitchen" mindset. However, considering your history that you offered, and again without real professional knowledge, I would suggest that, yes, you do have unresolved wounds from your teen years. About the only Freudian theory I ascribe to is the nature/nurture process of personality development. Sometimes its a matter of genetics, sometime a matter of time, place and situation. Now, as a resolution: Since this obviously concerns you (as it should, STD?) I would suggest you bring it up with a therapist, if you have one. I would not say you were raped or even "date-raped", but you may have allowed yourself to be in a situation you were not able to control the outcome of.
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