Posted by alexandra_k on June 23, 2014, at 22:29:28
In reply to Re: Saw him » Phillipa, posted by Dinah on June 23, 2014, at 21:48:34
maybe... time.
i think... people often don't handle things the best when things are turning to sh*t. sounds like he did the best he could at the time... but it turned out not to be good enough...
i'm glad that the meeting with him went pretty well. that you were able to express your hurt to him. that he seems to be... back? with respect to... being level headed. knowing you... knowing something about what you need from him right now.
do you really think it is just about the money? i bet he's had other clients who he could have... manoeuvred (so to speak) just as much money out of... if he'd have dedicated himself to that... and also... when one gets... hungry, cranky, lonely, tired, whatever... only a psychopath could feign true interest and patience and things like that... so persistently over so many years. and probably not even hollywood versions of them, truth be told.
i remember how hurt and upset i was with my t when i got back from the US... i... empathise with your feeling.
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