Posted by sassyfrancesca on December 3, 2008, at 14:26:23
In reply to Relationship with your T in your head?, posted by FindingMyDesire on December 3, 2008, at 0:35:11
> Here's a question. I'm sure it's been asked before... but after such a great therapy session tonight I am feeling a little playful I guess.
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> How many of you carry on what feels like a whole relationship (of any kind) with your T in your head?I talk to him a lot in my head.
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> 1. If you do, how does it differ (if it does) to the real relationship you have in your sessions together?I need to tell him the truth, but don't want to right now, so I talk to him in my head and out loud while driving.
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> 2. How much time do you spend talking to your T in your head (if you do such a thing as I seem to do much of the day)?Depends on what I am feeling about him.
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> 3. Do you ever argue with the T in your head?
No, in person (LOL)
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> 4. And, lastly, if you have insights about what this head-relationship is all about I would love to hear them.Well, ours really isn't a head relationship....it has progressed to a PERSONAL relationship. It would have been better for me if he hadn't shared his struggles about his feelings for me.
I mean, what can I do with: "If I were not married i would probably go for it."
As far as "head" stuff, he told me that I am IN his heart and head.
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> (Bonus Question)
> Oh, and if you ever have sexual fantasies about your T please feel free to share that (not them, just the fact that you have them) so that I don't feel so alone...Been havin' 'em every day for 4 years. I have also shared them with my t (one is quite graphic----it was a dream I had)
I've written elegant, erotic, tasteful poetry (years ago), and let him know I was in love with him.
Excruciating that he cannot reciprocate.....my truth to tell him is: How dare he lead me on for years......how sadistic.
Sassy
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> Finding My Desire
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