Posted by DAisym on November 4, 2008, at 23:52:37
In reply to Re: Life shouldn't be this hard - triggers, posted by seldomseen on November 4, 2008, at 5:47:56
Thanks for all the indepth replies. It seems that this topic is one that is difficult for everyone. It is nice to hear what has worked for people and that I'm not the only one struggling with it.
It triggers off so many questions beyond sex. Does telling someone else make it their problem, instead of yours? Do you inhibit their sexual pleasure? Are they (unconsciously) wondering why you "let" it happen? And don't most people believe that sex is such a base-need of humans that you should need it more than fear it?
I am trying to work through a number of things, including how awful I feel about myself around all of this. I will reply in greater detail to all soon. Until than, know how much you've all helped me.
Hugs,
Daisy
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