Posted by B2chica on May 12, 2006, at 10:08:25
In reply to Re: conflicted feelings about csa ***trigger*** » B2chica, posted by bent on May 11, 2006, at 17:50:37
>Thats half my problem tho, when those feelings arise I dissociate. My T says its hard for her to tell when my mind sorta leaves the room but i have never been able to tell her either. I dont know how to stay present. I dont know if she can help with that or not. I guess I am gonna have to stay present and feel through these feelings if I am going to get past them. thanks for your support.
i know exactly how you feel. when i'd even start to get close or she nosed in a little to quickly i would 'fuzz out' but i was frozen and couldn't move or talk so i couldn't tell him. i got better and more able to talk about that, and my T got better at recognizing when i'd 'disappear'. but what usually helped was switching from what we were talking aobut to 'what just happened'. then talk about those feelings instead of others that caused it.
he was wonderful.b2c.
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