Posted by pegasus on May 26, 2005, at 9:32:13
In reply to criticalness= emotional abuse? :(, posted by happyflower on May 26, 2005, at 8:13:05
No, no, you are not the people you hate. You're working on yourself, trying to see how you affect others. And you're really concerned about potentially hurting other people. I know it's hard to realize negative things about yourself, but it's really good work to do. And I know it feels icky, but I really applaud you for facing it. So many of us just get defensive, and then later forget about it when we get that kind of feedback.
I'm not agreeing that you're critical; I really don't know you well enough to say one way or another. But I can see that you're a sensitive, caring person.
pegasus
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