Posted by littleone on April 13, 2005, at 0:20:20
In reply to Re: I tried. » littleone, posted by Dinah on April 12, 2005, at 22:22:40
> I miss him.
I know you do. I must have tried a dozen times to write that post to you and each time it was either too uncaring or too hesitant or too sappy. I didn't know how to write it in a way that wouldn't offend or upset you. I hope it was okay.
I know you had those abandonment dreams over your T come up in another thread. Do you think it's because you're linking your T so closely to your dad at the moment that these have come up for you?
I can see that it is an unhealthy relationship when a child cares for the parent or tries to meet the parent's needs, but I also know that it is a nice and good thing to care for other people and look out for them and try to anticipate their needs. I get really muddled over where to draw the line I guess. That old black and white stuff again.
I hope you do talk this over with your T further. It seems like a really important area for you to work on. Even if it is scary. I guess that should be *especially* if it is scary.
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