Posted by littleone on April 12, 2005, at 15:42:22
In reply to Re: I tried. » mair, posted by Dinah on April 9, 2005, at 10:10:14
> For some reason, the idea of bringing up the dynamic I'm noticing is scary. I'm not sure I'm quite ready for it. And I'm not sure he's quite ready for it. Maybe when the time is right.
Dinah, could this be because you can see that this reaction of yours is maybe not so great and yet you can also see that it mirrors your relationship with your dad. And that means that maybe the relationship with your dad wasn't that great/healthy. And that is what is really scary - losing that view of your dad and your relationship with him. Taking your daddy goggles off.
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